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| Tweet Topic Started: Jul 19 2010, 12:39 AM (2,611 Views) | |
| Lost | Jul 27 2010, 01:41 AM Post #16 |
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Nothin to see here, move along
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John, I was having similar problems with the wife. If you have not had her read the "spousal support: how you can help" article... That is a MUST read. Spousal Support: how you can help My wife read that and there was a huge difference immediately. Of course she will slip or forget and bitch at me for something, but generally she is very supportive. PS: CMay1 is a very wise man... pay attention to him, it will make life much easier. |
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RIP JNH 08.07.2011 CAW 10.28.2010 TWB 06.26.2003 Fortes Fortuna adiuvat 07.18.2010 | |
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| cmay1 | Jul 27 2010, 09:39 AM Post #17 |
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There is no quit in me. Except for the quit.
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You can always tell her you're not going - but I'd look at it as a challenge. If you can man up and make it through that mine field now, you'll always have that to hold on to for the rest of your quit. If you think something is difficult in the future you can think, "this isn't that bad - I went to the fucking party with my wife, completely raging at her for making me go, and still didn't drink (if that's what you need to do) and didn't take a pinch." I would suggest avioding the alcohol at the partay. Also, don't listen to Lost - I'm borderline retarded. 'Crazy' |
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"So if EVERYTHING was a trigger then nothing is really a 'trigger'" - MikeA "panting like a fatopotomus" - Greg5280 "...and then at last my addict friend, you'll see what you've forsaken, when 100 speak the truth, and yet you disagree, then maybe you're mistaken." - SkoalMonster | |
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| redtrain14 | Jul 27 2010, 09:57 AM Post #18 |
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Brick by brick...
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Avoiding triggers early on such as parties, drinking, and former dipping buddies early is certainly solid advice. Look at it another way for a second. You are quit, you have MADE the decision to quit, you have posted roll. Its all about the decision my friend.....nothing can change that. You are quit, done, finished with it. And if one of them sumbeeches hand you a can....gladly accept and dump on the ground. I guarantee they won't do it again. |
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Quit Date: 2/7/08 Quit Group: May 2008 TTF | |
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| MikeA | Jul 27 2010, 10:21 AM Post #19 |
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Mrs MikeA supports us also!!
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Like I told you, get at least 5 numbers of guys in your group and text them that night. We helped a quitter in our group, Phat Pauly, make it through a very similar evening. We just kept texting him and he made it through. I still say don't go. Piss on her. 2 can play this game. |
| Being quit is like so much better than not being quit. | |
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| john101477 | Jul 27 2010, 01:43 PM Post #20 |
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Dip Quitter
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Yeah I am still figuring stuff out. We are talking about not going. Funny one day she is like "not my problem" and the next she is all supportive. I did have her read the support article and she was pretty good to me for a few days after. Unexpected BJ's, leaving me the fuck alone when she could clearly see I was pissy or craving. Now all that has changed. |
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Proud to be a future Oct HOF - COCKS RULE During this hard quit I am 100% sure that a blowjob is the best cure for a craving. | |
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| MikeA | Jul 27 2010, 02:08 PM Post #21 |
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Mrs MikeA supports us also!!
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I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't |
| Being quit is like so much better than not being quit. | |
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| kb81 | Jul 27 2010, 02:10 PM Post #22 |
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Quit Ninja
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what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL. |
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| john101477 | Jul 27 2010, 03:39 PM Post #23 |
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Dip Quitter
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Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7 |
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Proud to be a future Oct HOF - COCKS RULE During this hard quit I am 100% sure that a blowjob is the best cure for a craving. | |
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| Lost | Jul 27 2010, 03:43 PM Post #24 |
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Nothin to see here, move along
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I HATE YOU |
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RIP JNH 08.07.2011 CAW 10.28.2010 TWB 06.26.2003 Fortes Fortuna adiuvat 07.18.2010 | |
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| john101477 | Jul 27 2010, 04:04 PM Post #25 |
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Dip Quitter
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That's not very nice. |
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Proud to be a future Oct HOF - COCKS RULE During this hard quit I am 100% sure that a blowjob is the best cure for a craving. | |
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| Lost | Jul 27 2010, 04:07 PM Post #26 |
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Nothin to see here, move along
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Sorry, guess you missed the sarcasm. I was just jealous thats all. |
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RIP JNH 08.07.2011 CAW 10.28.2010 TWB 06.26.2003 Fortes Fortuna adiuvat 07.18.2010 | |
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| Instigator | Jul 27 2010, 04:10 PM Post #27 |
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What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol: |
| The Rozzers--Catching crims and locking them up...in your community | |
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| cmay1 | Jul 27 2010, 04:22 PM Post #28 |
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There is no quit in me. Except for the quit.
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I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response). |
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"So if EVERYTHING was a trigger then nothing is really a 'trigger'" - MikeA "panting like a fatopotomus" - Greg5280 "...and then at last my addict friend, you'll see what you've forsaken, when 100 speak the truth, and yet you disagree, then maybe you're mistaken." - SkoalMonster | |
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| MikeA | Jul 27 2010, 04:32 PM Post #29 |
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Mrs MikeA supports us also!!
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2 a week dude. I ain't ever listening to a story about that lovely lady you have as a wife ever again. She is awesome. All the crap you bitching about must be on you. HEHE |
| Being quit is like so much better than not being quit. | |
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| john101477 | Jul 27 2010, 04:35 PM Post #30 |
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Dip Quitter
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If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has. |
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Proud to be a future Oct HOF - COCKS RULE During this hard quit I am 100% sure that a blowjob is the best cure for a craving. | |
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