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I quit
Topic Started: Jul 19 2010, 12:39 AM (2,611 Views)
Lost
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Ms brilliant did iit again. She just does not understand the crap I am going through with the quit. She signed us up to go to a fucking party where all the males will be 1 drinking and 2 chewing. What the fuck is she thinking. I swear she has figured out ways to piss me off every 20 minutes today. Fucking bullshit


John,

I was having similar problems with the wife. If you have not had her read the "spousal support: how you can help" article... That is a MUST read.

Spousal Support: how you can help

My wife read that and there was a huge difference immediately. Of course she will slip or forget and bitch at me for something, but generally she is very supportive.


PS: CMay1 is a very wise man... pay attention to him, it will make life much easier.
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JNH 08.07.2011
CAW 10.28.2010
TWB 06.26.2003

Fortes Fortuna adiuvat

07.18.2010
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cmay1
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john101477
Jul 26, 2010, 10:47 pm
Ms brilliant did iit again. She just does not understand the crap I am going through with the quit. She signed us up to go to a fucking party where all the males will be 1 drinking and 2 chewing. What the fuck is she thinking. I swear she has figured out ways to piss me off every 20 minutes today. Fucking bullshit

You can always tell her you're not going - but I'd look at it as a challenge. If you can man up and make it through that mine field now, you'll always have that to hold on to for the rest of your quit. If you think something is difficult in the future you can think, "this isn't that bad - I went to the fucking party with my wife, completely raging at her for making me go, and still didn't drink (if that's what you need to do) and didn't take a pinch."

I would suggest avioding the alcohol at the partay.

Also, don't listen to Lost - I'm borderline retarded. 'Crazy'
"So if EVERYTHING was a trigger then nothing is really a 'trigger'" - MikeA


"panting like a fatopotomus" - Greg5280

"...and then at last my addict friend, you'll see what you've forsaken, when 100 speak the truth, and yet you disagree, then maybe you're mistaken." - SkoalMonster
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redtrain14
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Brick by brick...
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Avoiding triggers early on such as parties, drinking, and former dipping buddies early is certainly solid advice.

Look at it another way for a second. You are quit, you have MADE the decision to quit, you have posted roll. Its all about the decision my friend.....nothing can change that. You are quit, done, finished with it.

And if one of them sumbeeches hand you a can....gladly accept and dump on the ground. I guarantee they won't do it again.
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MikeA
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Like I told you, get at least 5 numbers of guys in your group and text them that night. We helped a quitter in our group, Phat Pauly, make it through a very similar evening. We just kept texting him and he made it through.

I still say don't go. Piss on her. 2 can play this game.
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Yeah I am still figuring stuff out. We are talking about not going. Funny one day she is like "not my problem" and the next she is all supportive. I did have her read the support article and she was pretty good to me for a few days after. Unexpected BJ's, leaving me the fuck alone when she could clearly see I was pissy or craving. Now all that has changed.
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During this hard quit I am 100% sure that a blowjob is the best cure for a craving.
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john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 12:43 pm
Unexpected BJ's,

I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
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MikeA
Jul 27, 2010, 12:08 pm
john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 12:43 pm
Unexpected BJ's,

I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't

what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
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Jul 27, 2010, 12:10 pm
MikeA
Jul 27, 2010, 12:08 pm
john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 12:43 pm
Unexpected BJ's,

I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't

what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.

Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
Proud to be a future Oct HOF - COCKS RULE
During this hard quit I am 100% sure that a blowjob is the best cure for a craving.
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kb81
Jul 27, 2010, 12:10 pm
MikeA
Jul 27, 2010, 12:08 pm
john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 12:43 pm
Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7


I HATE YOU
RIP
JNH 08.07.2011
CAW 10.28.2010
TWB 06.26.2003

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Lost
Jul 27, 2010, 1:43 pm
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kb81
Jul 27, 2010, 12:10 pm
MikeA
Jul 27, 2010, 12:08 pm
john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 12:43 pm
Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7


I HATE YOU

That's not very nice.
Proud to be a future Oct HOF - COCKS RULE
During this hard quit I am 100% sure that a blowjob is the best cure for a craving.
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Lost
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Nothin to see here, move along
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Lost
Jul 27, 2010, 1:43 pm
Quote:
 
kb81
Jul 27, 2010, 12:10 pm
MikeA
Jul 27, 2010, 12:08 pm
john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 12:43 pm
Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.


Sorry, guess you missed the sarcasm. I was just jealous thats all.
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JNH 08.07.2011
CAW 10.28.2010
TWB 06.26.2003

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john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 2:04 pm
Lost
Jul 27, 2010, 1:43 pm
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kb81
Jul 27, 2010, 12:10 pm
MikeA
Jul 27, 2010, 12:08 pm
john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 12:43 pm
Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7


I HATE YOU

That's not very nice.

What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh.

:lol:
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Jul 27, 2010, 4:10 pm
john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 2:04 pm
Lost
Jul 27, 2010, 1:43 pm
Quote:
 
kb81
Jul 27, 2010, 12:10 pm
MikeA
Jul 27, 2010, 12:08 pm
john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 12:43 pm
Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7


I HATE YOU

That's not very nice.

What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh.

:lol:

I thought this was appropriate:


A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's:


'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj'

A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's:

'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point'

'Y' ??? (my wife...)

'Finger' (me in response).
"So if EVERYTHING was a trigger then nothing is really a 'trigger'" - MikeA


"panting like a fatopotomus" - Greg5280

"...and then at last my addict friend, you'll see what you've forsaken, when 100 speak the truth, and yet you disagree, then maybe you're mistaken." - SkoalMonster
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cmay1
Jul 27, 2010, 3:22 pm
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Jul 27, 2010, 4:10 pm
john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 2:04 pm
Lost
Jul 27, 2010, 1:43 pm
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kb81
Jul 27, 2010, 12:10 pm
MikeA
Jul 27, 2010, 12:08 pm
john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 12:43 pm
Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7


I HATE YOU

That's not very nice.

What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh.

:lol:

I thought this was appropriate:


A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's:


'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj'

A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's:

'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point'

'Y' ??? (my wife...)

'Finger' (me in response).

2 a week dude. I ain't ever listening to a story about that lovely lady you have as a wife ever again. She is awesome. All the crap you bitching about must be on you. HEHE
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cmay1
Jul 27, 2010, 2:22 pm
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Jul 27, 2010, 4:10 pm
john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 2:04 pm
Lost
Jul 27, 2010, 1:43 pm
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kb81
Jul 27, 2010, 12:10 pm
MikeA
Jul 27, 2010, 12:08 pm
john101477
Jul 27, 2010, 12:43 pm
Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7


I HATE YOU

That's not very nice.

What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh.

:lol:

I thought this was appropriate:


A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's:


'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj'

A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's:

'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point'

'Y' ??? (my wife...)

'Finger' (me in response).

If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
Proud to be a future Oct HOF - COCKS RULE
During this hard quit I am 100% sure that a blowjob is the best cure for a craving.
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